Fun Facts
I was born and raised in Gary, IN.
Married to my husband for 26 years and counting + mom of 3 young adults.
I cherish quality time with my family. I value my self-care. I love spending time with friends.
I love to read, I'm a self-help literature junkie!
I love to travel and retail therapy IS a form of therapy.
A Relationship Expert & Mental Health Advocate Bridging the Gap of Personal Growth, Organizational Culture, and Thriving Communities
I'm so glad you stopped by! Welcome, I’m Elvery Tinsley (she/her), a licensed mental health counselor associate aka therapist, coach, speaker, and relationship expert.
I am the founder of two companies. If you're seeking to improve your relationships personally or professionally, I'm ya girl!
In 2018 I started an empowerment community for Black couples, Love Minus Limits, where I host transformative couples retreats, events, provide digital resources, and offer coaching.
In 2024, I started my private practice Harmony Counseling Network, where I am doing clinical relationship-changing work to cultivate and build healthy relationships through evidence based theories such as Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), The Gottman Method, Mindfulness, Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), and Solutions Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT).
My mission is to empower women, couples, and leaders to build resilient, authentic relationships that increase growth, drive success, and create thriving environments where connection, fulfillment, and lasting impact are at the core.
When working with me you will find that I am relatable, engaging, and love to laugh.
We connect on a real level that's down to earth yet empathetic but we work to creating lasting change together.
My CORE values
Being authentic-I show up as ME, my whole self
Fun, life isn't meant to be boring, LIVE while you have LIFE
Growth- evolving and willing to learn
Compassion for myself and others
Boundaries- upholding mine and respecting others
Minding My Business- yes it’s so easy to do
Regulating My Emotions- I’m not a hypocrite, I practice what I preach
My Training & Qualifications
Indiana University-Indianapolis
2018- Bachelors in General Studies -focus Behavioral Science and Psychology, Minor Sociology
2022- Masters in Counseling MS. Ed., Mental Health Certification, LMHC
Mental Health License- Professional License # 88002751A
Let’s work together.
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