Heal Every Relationship That Matters To You

Therapy and resources for couples and women ready to reconnect with themselves, repair their relationships, and realign with their purpose without losing themselves in the process.

Black Therapist and Relationship Expert Helping Leaders & Couples Thrive

Hello! I’m Elvery -Therapist, Relationship Expert, and Women’s Wellness Champion

My mission is to be your guide in repairing the relationships that shape your life: the one with yourself, the one with your partner, and the one with your purpose.

As the founder of Harmony Counseling Network, I provide therapy for couples and women to reconnect with each other, themselves, and the life they actually want.

Whether it’s navigating love, self-worth, or life transitions, I don’t believe in surface-level solutions. I believe in real, lasting change. My work blends therapy, strategy, and bold truth-telling to guide you through the emotional work of staying connected, without losing yourself in the process.

The 3 Relationships That Shape Your Life

  • Therapy for women

    With Self

    When you're disconnected from yourself, everything feels off; your energy, your relationships, your purpose.

    Let’s work together to:

    Reclaim your identity beyond the roles you play

    Name your needs and honoring your “no”

    Release burnout and performing

    Building boundaries without guilt

    Practicing rest as a form of resistance

    Reconnecting with joy, ease, and softness

  • Couples Therapy

    In Love

    Rebuild connection and trust. You’re tired of surviving love. You want to feel seen, safe, and understood not stuck in the same old cycles.


    Let’s work together to:

    Break the pattern of miscommunication and emotional shutdown

    Repair trust after betrayal or disconnection

    Learn how to fight fair and love better

    Restore intimacy and emotional safety

    Build rituals that deepen your bond

    Shift from surviving to thriving in your relationship

  • Community Healing Circle

    In Community

    Healing isn’t meant to be done in isolation. You deserve spaces where you can be seen, held, and supported without needing to perform.


    I hold healing circles that remind you:

    Community care is just as important as self-care

    Connection can be a balm and a breakthrough

    There’s power in being witnessed, not just surviving in silence

    When we gather with intention, we begin to remember who we are

    Your voice and your story matters

You’re Successful… But Still Struggling?

You feel emotionally alone in your relationship.

You keep showing up for everyone else but yourself.

You wonder: When is it finally going to be my turn?

You’re not broken. You just need new tools and support that get you.

Black Therapist and Relationship Expert Helping Leaders & Couples Thrive

This Isn’t Just What I Do. It’s What I’ve Lived.

Your relationships will always show you where the healing needs to happen.

I help couples and women reconnect with themselves, each other, and their deeper purpose. With 5+ years of experience, I blend real-life wisdom with evidence-based tools, so your healing is rooted, not rushed.

My approach to therapy isn't about fixing you, it's about giving you tools to reconnect, reclaim, and rise. Together, we’ll unpack the patterns, rewrite the story, and build the kind of love, clarity, and peace that lasts.

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Let’s Get You Back In Harmony

There are three simple steps to get started.

Step 1- Book Consultation

Schedule a free 15 minute consultation with Elvery. Start with a free, no-pressure judge free call to share what’s been coming up for you and what you’re hoping to change.

Step 2- Consultation

During the consultation, we’ll get clear on what you need most, whether it’s therapy, couples work, or joining a healing circle and map out the best way forward.

Step 3- Begin The Work

Once we align on the path, we begin the real work, healing, rebuilding, and creating lasting change in the relationships that matter most to you.

What would it feel like to finally feel at home in your own life and relationship?

Let’s bring your life, your love, and your spirit back into harmony.

Without The Right Tools, You Repeat The Same Cycles

You were never meant to do life disconnected, from yourself or your partner.

  • What you don’t repair, you repeat. Let’s change the pattern.

  • You’ve tried doing it alone. Now it’s time to do it differently.

  • New results require new tools. This is where transformation begins.

  • Healing starts when you stop trying to figure it out alone.

Imagine This…

You’re rested, clear-minded, and unbothered


You’re deeply connected to your partner again


You’re finally showing up in your life… for YOU

Let’s build a life that feels aligned, grounded, and in harmony with who you are.

Real People. Real Breakthroughs.

Elvery you are called to this work. You have helped me get through some difficult moments in my life. Everyone needs a therapist like you.
— Client
Elvery knows her stuff. Every time I leave I have clarity on what to do next. She provides a space where I feel seen but not judged.
— Client
Elvery gets me right! My children and I have gone through so many transitions while working with Elvery and she has been there guiding me on how to get through it all. I know I’ve gotten on her nerves.
— Client

You’re not too late. You’re right on time.

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