Love Minus Limits
A Therapist Led Community
for Black Couples
Love Minus Limits Isn’t Just Coaching, it’s Community.
Welcome to Love Minus Limits new home!
Now a community under the Elvery Tinsley brand, it remains a sacred space for Black couples who are ready to break cycles, build emotional safety, and grow relationships that last.
This is where Black love gets room to breathe where the performance stops, the healing starts, and connection gets real.
Who Is It For?
Love Minus Limits is for Black couples, married, engaged, or deeply committed, who are ready to invest in their relationship and grow together.
It’s for couples who:
Want to strengthen their bond through intentional, guided connection
Are navigating real-life challenges and want tools to stay aligned
Appreciate spaces where they don’t have to explain their love, culture, or commitment
Value growth, but also joy, softness, laughter, and legacy
Whether you're in a season of rebuilding, recommitting, or maintaining what you've created, this space is for you.
Why Community Matters?
Love Minus Limits isn’t just about couples growing privately, it’s about building connection publicly, too. We believe Black love deserves community.
This community is for you if you:
Want to be in rooms with other thriving and evolving Black couples
Are looking for shared wisdom, real conversations, and collective healing
Believe that healthy relationships should be celebrated, not just survived
Want a space where their love isn’t just understood, it’s uplifted
This is where Black couples come to connect, not just with each other but with other couples doing the work, asking the hard questions, and choosing each other daily.
What Happens Inside This Community?
Love Minus Limits now lives across multiple touchpoints, still rooted in the same mission, with expanded ways to connect:
Annual Relationship Rhythm Retreat
Luxury Local Events
Relationship Rhythm Collective *Coming Soon*
What We Do As A Community
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Relationship Rhythm Collective
Where Black Love Stays In Sync!
The Relationship Rhythm Collective is your ongoing space to grow, reconnect, and sustain a love that lasts. Rooted in the Relationship Rhythm framework, this membership gives Black couples the tools, community, and live guidance to communicate with care, handle conflict with confidence, and stay emotionally in tune—long after the honeymoon phase.
From monthly live Q&As to digital tools and event discounts, this collective is more than support—it’s a movement.
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Relationship Rhythm Retreat
Looking to get in sync with your boo? Join us for a transformative luxury retreat designed specifically for couples to reset, reconnect and get into their rhythm. Our retreats offer a nurturing environment to explore your relationship rhythm, enhance communication, and deepen your connection. Through guided sessions and interactive activities, you'll gain valuable tools to strengthen your bond and build a resilient partnership. Experience the joy of rediscovering each other and leave with a renewed sense of unity and purpose.
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Couples Events
Our luxury events are designed for couples who want more than a night out, they want an experience. We host 2 signature events per year to celebrate connection, deepen intimacy, and remind you why you chose each other. Expect good vibes, real conversations, and unforgettable moments rooted in joy, growth, and Black Love.
Black Love Matters Celebration -Spring
Garden Soul Soiree- Late Summer
3 Easy Ways Join The Community
Get Emails That Matter
Subscribe to the Rhythm Of Love newsletter! You will receive weekly insights, tools, and real talk straight to your inbox. The emails combines the full scope of my work as a therapist, relationship expert, and healing facilitator.
Join the Private Facebook Group
Our private Facebook group is where the Love Minus Limits community comes alive. Come through for relationship gems, real conversation, and connection with other Black couples doing the work. No pressure, no judgment, just support and growth in real time.
Take Relationship Rhythm Quiz
Find out which stage your relationship is in and get custom tools to help you grow, reconnect, or strengthen your bond. In just 2 minutes, you'll uncover the patterns shaping your love and what to do next.
Word From Other Couples
Your Relationship Has a Rhythm—Do You Know It?
Get the clarity you need to stop repeating patterns and start building the love you deserve.